Here you will find an ongoing 'Interview'-style question & answer

mostly for personal inquiries about me and my life/world/fun

but also questions of an 'expertise' nature.

Feel free to submit all questions anonymously and I'll get to it ASAP. 

How many inquiries a day do you get?

How do you approach selecting people?

Most days somewhere in the arena of 300 emails, messages etc reach me.

Of these maybe 100 are people I've never heard from. Of these perhaps

half are serious inquiries. Of those half are...inappropriate. Of the half

that are appropriate, half seem awesome to me! Of that 15 or so I choose

1-4 who seem sweet, kind, fun and potential long-term kinship. I do this

for fun not money so it's important that I actually LIKE someone and

WANT to be physical with them. I would never ever see someone I felt

no attraction to or who didn't excite me.

I will (logically) opt to see someone who prepays over someone who

does not, someone without facial hair over someone who does,

someone who is excited by the same things that excite me.

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Are you thinking of retiring?

Yes. I don't consider what I do

work at all but this past year

COVID took so much fun out of

it that it'll be JULY before I can

make a reasonable assessment

as to whether or not it's time to

find some other adventure. I

am an author, DJ, painter,

traveler/adventurer so I have a

rich life, but I'd still need some-

thing erotic to gratify that

element of my life/psyche/ID.

HAVE YOU TURNED PEOPLE

AWAY AT THE DOOR?

6 TIMES altogether. If someone

shows up and I even SUSPECT

they are drunk, high, sick, weird,

dangerous, lying, dirty etc...I

politely end the session before it

even begins. This is SOP for me.

I don't take risks...this is supposed

to be FUN! 

STILL NOT CLEAR ON YOUR

'POLY' STATUS. Explain plz?

I had a husband until this past

FEBRUARY at which point he

passed away from a brain tumor.

I have 2 wives (3 others by asso-

ciation), 3 GFs, a BF and of course

I'm free to date or marry anyone

else I like. In a POLY scenario

everyone is aware of and happy

with everyone else's EVERYONE

ELSE. So one of my wives has

4 other wives, several BFs and

was 'married' to my dearly-

departed simultaneously to me.

Spouses, BFs/GFs, significant

others etc come and go, some-

times live together for days weeks

or months before switching

homes/fellow S.O.'s. There are

no secrets, no cheating, no lies.

Everyone has several major

relationships with people who

have the same. Everyone gives

and gets what they need...but

no longer from a SINGLE person.

Which is insane, cruel and im-

possible. It requires maturity.

WHY HAVEN'T YOU HAD A

MMF 3SOME YET?

So many have asked about this

I better get around to it now.

I know it might seem strange to

some people who don't know

me that given all the sex I've had

I would have done this by now.

Nope. It's not that I haven't had

thousands of opportunities, it's

just that when hubby was alive

we agreed we wanted it to be as

exciting and perfect as possible.

This requires finding the right 2

males. They need to be comfy

with one another, and they need

to be...predictable. Safe. When

men get together in various

circumstances they can be the

sweetest people in the world until

there are other males there to...

create a mob-mentality. Suddenly

Mr SweetiePie is turning into a

rowdy, aggressive, high-fiving

scumbag who...god-knows! what

they are capable of. This factor

needs to be reduced. When this

happens I'll be thrilled to have my

first experience. 

WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST

TURN-ON?

 

The area of this site that was

originally designed for and

addressed my turn-ons has gone

the way of the DODO along with

other elements so I can update

my answers because life changes.

People change. Evolve. As there

is money involved I don't make

a chief goal of mine getting off

myself. So 99% of playmates

don't care what my turn-ons are

-- especially because they don't

relate to them individually.

So if you want...anyone who

goes to the trouble of asking

me on KIK before hand and then

sticks to their plan and succeeds

gets a 100% FREEBIE! I'm saying

this because so far no one has.

No one has really even tried.

WHY DON'T YOU WATCH

THE CLOCK LIKE OTHERS DO?

I DO THIS FOR FUN not money.

It's never been about money.

All my VIPs have not been charged

a dime in 3 years (because they

respect me enough to ensure I'm

not left empty-handed and I give

them the respect of trusting them.

When everyone is given and

gives respect, we all win!

Money isn't a discussion issue.

Obviously I do pay attention to it

somewhat but yes mostly I don't

watch it unless I have a really

tight schedule.

WHERE IS THE VIP area?

Offsite. 4 years ago I moved it to

the same place PIRATEBAY has

stowed itself in the past. It is

accessible to those playmates

who see me regularly enough,

show interest in me and my life

as a whole, chat me on KIK and

have similar sexual enthusiasm.

WHO DO YOU BLOCK/NOT

EVEN CONSIDER?

A potential playmate can expect

a non-reply, a polite brush-off

or a permanent block when he

does any number of things.

The list seems endless!

People who put me in a red-

light guarded state start their

interaction with me with

"Available?" or "Services

please..." or saying something

crude/vulgar. Non-coopera-

tion to protocols, hagglers,

pic-hunters. Men specifically

need to understand that it's

obvious when someone's not

really serious. Years of exper!

WHY DON'T YOU USE A

PSEUDO OR HIDE YOUR FACE?

As I've said many times, I love

what I do and actually think it's

something to BRAG about! I think

what I do is awesome and there's

absolutely no shame at all --

quite the contrary! No one in my

life is kept in the dark about

my sexuality or any other part of

my life. When I was 19 I made a

decision that anyone who would

have issue with my sexuality was

no longer welcome in my life.

Friends, family...everyone.

I became immediately liberated

and have lived free of any/all

'hiding' ever since. I'm having

a fantastic time without anyone

to look at me sideways.

WHY ARE YOUR PRICES SO LOW?

 

Again, the money is tertiary

at best. This is supposed to be fun!

I'm not a party girl. I watch 70s

saturday cartoons, LEAVE IT TO

BEAVER before bed, don't smoke,

drink, do drugs, no tattoos etc.

I'm not really 'the type' at all!

So as long as playmates are

sweet, considerate, respectful

and we have FUN, the numbers

themselves aren't so important.

I'm very well-off so I can be

choosey, based on my mood,

time of day, day of the week,

do I have other people hanging

out with me, weather. I can be

capricious. With so much other

living/responsibilities/adven-

tures...sometimes I just set it

aside for days, even weeks.

HOW CAN I MAKE SURE YOU

THINK I'M AWESOME?

Take the time to really read my

site, be fun, funny and -- most

importantly -- find out what

drives ME CRAZY and have fun

with it yourself. A great review

is always good and yes, showing

up with a gift card etc demon-

strates you understand I've

already 1) cut my rates...3 times!

2) Am absorbing or paying for

things gentlemen USED to

pay for (so much for gallantry),

3) You're getting someone who

actually ENJOYS herself rather

faking it/putting on a show.

The best start is taking time to

sit at your desktop/laptop/IPAD

(not phone) and really find out

who I am.

WHAT'S UP WITH THE

RACIAL LIMITATIONS

It's not racism specifically.

I simply have had more than

50% of my playmates belong to

INDIAN, MIDDLE-EASTERN and

other brown ethnicities. I still

see people who are not white

but I am limiting, otherwise all

my playmates will be...not white.

It's just a selection strategy.

At least half my current play-

mates are not white.

WHAT'S YOUR POLICY ON

SEEING COUPLES?

Unfortunately, when seeing more

than one person at a time --

regardless of who they are or

may be (good or bad) you're

still talking about two people, not

one. So yes while women are

100% free of any charges, couples

have a specific protocol I use:

I see both separately first

(whether we have fun or not)

and then the couple together.

It's not always agreeable but there

are obvious reasons.

WHO IS SCARLET CARSON

She is my 'alter-ego' designed

for safe-distance fun and for

extra perks/play for those who

have earned such privileges.

I did have another ALTER

I called TRIX but I wrapped

that up in November and

won't be doing it again.

WHAT'S A CAMJAM?

Under typical circumstance I

turn on a cam or two or three

like so many do, only in my case

it's to allow welcomed playmates

to watch myself and others just

hang-out, watch a movie, listen

to music, chat about life, ask

questions and, yes, have some

sexy fun for those watching to

enjoy. This can be KIK video,

FACETIME or other video that

allows for this sort of socializing.

I've done this in my GTA and

L.A. homes, while on vacation

in hotels and out gallivanting

around valleys, mountains,

beaches, bridges and every

where else my life takes me!

CAMJAMS are fun, usually last

1-3 hours and so far have

always gone superbly!

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