Here you will find an ongoing 'Interview'-style question & answer
mostly for personal inquiries about me and my life/world/fun
but also questions of an 'expertise' nature.
Feel free to submit all questions anonymously and I'll get to it ASAP.
How many inquiries a day do you get?
How do you approach selecting people?
Most days somewhere in the arena of 300 emails, messages etc reach me.
Of these maybe 100 are people I've never heard from. Of these perhaps
half are serious inquiries. Of those half are...inappropriate. Of the half
that are appropriate, half seem awesome to me! Of that 15 or so I choose
1-4 who seem sweet, kind, fun and potential long-term kinship. I do this
for fun not money so it's important that I actually LIKE someone and
WANT to be physical with them. I would never ever see someone I felt
no attraction to or who didn't excite me.
I will (logically) opt to see someone who prepays over someone who
does not, someone without facial hair over someone who does,
someone who is excited by the same things that excite me.
Are you thinking of retiring?
Yes. I don't consider what I do
work at all but this past year
COVID took so much fun out of
it that it'll be JULY before I can
make a reasonable assessment
as to whether or not it's time to
find some other adventure. I
am an author, DJ, painter,
traveler/adventurer so I have a
rich life, but I'd still need some-
thing erotic to gratify that
element of my life/psyche/ID.
HAVE YOU TURNED PEOPLE
AWAY AT THE DOOR?
6 TIMES altogether. If someone
shows up and I even SUSPECT
they are drunk, high, sick, weird,
dangerous, lying, dirty etc...I
politely end the session before it
even begins. This is SOP for me.
I don't take risks...this is supposed
to be FUN!
STILL NOT CLEAR ON YOUR
'POLY' STATUS. Explain plz?
I had a husband until this past
FEBRUARY at which point he
passed away from a brain tumor.
I have 2 wives (3 others by asso-
ciation), 3 GFs, a BF and of course
I'm free to date or marry anyone
else I like. In a POLY scenario
everyone is aware of and happy
with everyone else's EVERYONE
ELSE. So one of my wives has
4 other wives, several BFs and
was 'married' to my dearly-
departed simultaneously to me.
Spouses, BFs/GFs, significant
others etc come and go, some-
times live together for days weeks
or months before switching
homes/fellow S.O.'s. There are
no secrets, no cheating, no lies.
Everyone has several major
relationships with people who
have the same. Everyone gives
and gets what they need...but
no longer from a SINGLE person.
Which is insane, cruel and im-
possible. It requires maturity.
WHY HAVEN'T YOU HAD A
MMF 3SOME YET?
So many have asked about this
I better get around to it now.
I know it might seem strange to
some people who don't know
me that given all the sex I've had
I would have done this by now.
Nope. It's not that I haven't had
thousands of opportunities, it's
just that when hubby was alive
we agreed we wanted it to be as
exciting and perfect as possible.
This requires finding the right 2
males. They need to be comfy
with one another, and they need
to be...predictable. Safe. When
men get together in various
circumstances they can be the
sweetest people in the world until
there are other males there to...
create a mob-mentality. Suddenly
Mr SweetiePie is turning into a
rowdy, aggressive, high-fiving
scumbag who...god-knows! what
they are capable of. This factor
needs to be reduced. When this
happens I'll be thrilled to have my
first experience.
WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST
TURN-ON?
The area of this site that was
originally designed for and
addressed my turn-ons has gone
the way of the DODO along with
other elements so I can update
my answers because life changes.
People change. Evolve. As there
is money involved I don't make
a chief goal of mine getting off
myself. So 99% of playmates
don't care what my turn-ons are
-- especially because they don't
relate to them individually.
So if you want...anyone who
goes to the trouble of asking
me on KIK before hand and then
sticks to their plan and succeeds
gets a 100% FREEBIE! I'm saying
this because so far no one has.
No one has really even tried.
WHY DON'T YOU WATCH
THE CLOCK LIKE OTHERS DO?
I DO THIS FOR FUN not money.
It's never been about money.
All my VIPs have not been charged
a dime in 3 years (because they
respect me enough to ensure I'm
not left empty-handed and I give
them the respect of trusting them.
When everyone is given and
gives respect, we all win!
Money isn't a discussion issue.
Obviously I do pay attention to it
somewhat but yes mostly I don't
watch it unless I have a really
tight schedule.
WHERE IS THE VIP area?
Offsite. 4 years ago I moved it to
the same place PIRATEBAY has
stowed itself in the past. It is
accessible to those playmates
who see me regularly enough,
show interest in me and my life
as a whole, chat me on KIK and
have similar sexual enthusiasm.
WHO DO YOU BLOCK/NOT
EVEN CONSIDER?
A potential playmate can expect
a non-reply, a polite brush-off
or a permanent block when he
does any number of things.
The list seems endless!
People who put me in a red-
light guarded state start their
interaction with me with
"Available?" or "Services
please..." or saying something
crude/vulgar. Non-coopera-
tion to protocols, hagglers,
pic-hunters. Men specifically
need to understand that it's
obvious when someone's not
really serious. Years of exper!
WHY DON'T YOU USE A
PSEUDO OR HIDE YOUR FACE?
As I've said many times, I love
what I do and actually think it's
something to BRAG about! I think
what I do is awesome and there's
absolutely no shame at all --
quite the contrary! No one in my
life is kept in the dark about
my sexuality or any other part of
my life. When I was 19 I made a
decision that anyone who would
have issue with my sexuality was
no longer welcome in my life.
Friends, family...everyone.
I became immediately liberated
and have lived free of any/all
'hiding' ever since. I'm having
a fantastic time without anyone
to look at me sideways.
WHY ARE YOUR PRICES SO LOW?
Again, the money is tertiary
at best. This is supposed to be fun!
I'm not a party girl. I watch 70s
saturday cartoons, LEAVE IT TO
BEAVER before bed, don't smoke,
drink, do drugs, no tattoos etc.
I'm not really 'the type' at all!
So as long as playmates are
sweet, considerate, respectful
and we have FUN, the numbers
themselves aren't so important.
I'm very well-off so I can be
choosey, based on my mood,
time of day, day of the week,
do I have other people hanging
out with me, weather. I can be
capricious. With so much other
living/responsibilities/adven-
tures...sometimes I just set it
aside for days, even weeks.
HOW CAN I MAKE SURE YOU
THINK I'M AWESOME?
Take the time to really read my
site, be fun, funny and -- most
importantly -- find out what
drives ME CRAZY and have fun
with it yourself. A great review
is always good and yes, showing
up with a gift card etc demon-
strates you understand I've
already 1) cut my rates...3 times!
2) Am absorbing or paying for
things gentlemen USED to
pay for (so much for gallantry),
3) You're getting someone who
actually ENJOYS herself rather
faking it/putting on a show.
The best start is taking time to
sit at your desktop/laptop/IPAD
(not phone) and really find out
who I am.
WHAT'S UP WITH THE
RACIAL LIMITATIONS
It's not racism specifically.
I simply have had more than
50% of my playmates belong to
INDIAN, MIDDLE-EASTERN and
other brown ethnicities. I still
see people who are not white
but I am limiting, otherwise all
my playmates will be...not white.
It's just a selection strategy.
At least half my current play-
mates are not white.
WHAT'S YOUR POLICY ON
SEEING COUPLES?
Unfortunately, when seeing more
than one person at a time --
regardless of who they are or
may be (good or bad) you're
still talking about two people, not
one. So yes while women are
100% free of any charges, couples
have a specific protocol I use:
I see both separately first
(whether we have fun or not)
and then the couple together.
It's not always agreeable but there
are obvious reasons.
WHO IS SCARLET CARSON
She is my 'alter-ego' designed
for safe-distance fun and for
extra perks/play for those who
have earned such privileges.
I did have another ALTER
I called TRIX but I wrapped
that up in November and
won't be doing it again.
WHAT'S A CAMJAM?
Under typical circumstance I
turn on a cam or two or three
like so many do, only in my case
it's to allow welcomed playmates
to watch myself and others just
hang-out, watch a movie, listen
to music, chat about life, ask
questions and, yes, have some
sexy fun for those watching to
enjoy. This can be KIK video,
FACETIME or other video that
allows for this sort of socializing.
I've done this in my GTA and
L.A. homes, while on vacation
in hotels and out gallivanting
around valleys, mountains,
beaches, bridges and every
where else my life takes me!
CAMJAMS are fun, usually last
1-3 hours and so far have
always gone superbly!
