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"The only girl I've ever met who loves sex more than I do.
I honestly didn't know such a girl existed.
Now I know there IS a god! " -- Y. Donelly.
This blog is designed to be viewed on a computer/tablet.
Due to the immensity of what I post, I split the month
up in a few pages so that everything loads (teehee)
efficiently! To fully understand and appreciate
the content and context on future pages you'll
need to read every post for the month.
Read blog posts from February 11 and later on HERE!
INTIMATE DISCLOSURE #7
When you live and thrive in a POLY lifestyle it means having several spouses but
only one is 'on paper'. Marriages are minus all the meaningless nonsense of
documents. The only 'wedding' that matters is the one that happens in the heart
head, spirit, soul and a true exchange of vows you actually mean and mean to keep.
The wedding ceremony is a new idea. Originally you were married when you
"went into" her 'tent' or wherever she was when you entered...not her...but
the chamber where you had sex. The sex itself was the marital event.
As most experts agree MAN has existed for 300,00 years and the first indication
of any ceremony -- let alone the legal element of it -- is 2350 B.C and spread
slowly and was not even the common practice throughout civilization until
the onset of the Catholic church in 300 A.D. In other words... we invented it!
All the thousands of years prior people had spouses, but not weddings.
Not civic/legal events. I had my 'ceremony' with D. in the Taiwan Yushan
National park with several people in 'attendance', we 'consummated' in
a cabana we had set up ahead of time and slept under the stars.
Of course, we'd already had plenty of sex by then! But I've posted
19 photos from the event in the VIP. Most marriages that start with a ceremony
and a legal document end. Mine was a perfect, perfect thing!
I've saddled horses all over the
world, including those I own,
and they never pale in fascination
-- as they have done since we first
laid eyes on them! I've already
spoken numerous times about
HIDALGO & PHAR LAP but
there's no doubt that movies like
THE BLACK STALLION dazzle and
amaze everyone who first lays on
it. But if WILD HORSES can't
keep us away from the ones we
love maybe THE CRUSH (1993)
will reassess love/obsession and
CROSSING DELANCEY which
might help reassess our first
prejudices. Man's centuries-long
love-affair with horse-racing is
really a return to a time before
the animals feared us...which
most religious mythology claims
was the case. Now...I wanna
FEB 10, 2021
It's a simple truism of life.
Pay close attention.
Are you listening closely...?
DOG!! Lemme repeat that.
YOU DONT KILL A MAN'S DOG!
This is now something I under-
stand in a way I did not 9 years
ago before D. insisted that I get
a dog despite my misgivings.
Within the month I was so
emotionally connected with
PEPPER that when I watched
JOHN WICK...I TOTALLY GOT
IT! I got it in a way that usually
only MEN understand. Where-
ever it happened, it happened...
Man's best friend has survived
thousands of years and world
tragedies, wars, disease.
You don't kill a man's dog!
Try THE INCREDIBLE JOURNEY
FEB 10, 2021
GET CLOSE ENOUGH TO EAT MY
Close only counts in horseshoes? It also counts
when it comes to LOVE. Most people aren't too
demanding when it comes to the quality of love
they get -- we know it's hard to find in any measure!
AT CLOSE RANGE might be one of the most distur-
bing dramas for five-star family...darkness. But
PENN and WALKEN pack a hell of a punch!
Love Madonna's "LIVE TO TELL" -- her best
song ever! Now let's get a little closer...closer...
FEB 9, 2021
The end of winter still seems far
away to me, but the new water
heater is keeping the baths and
showers soooooothing and zen.
You and I aren't that distant and
far, far less cold, and the big sky
and big world is still full of wonder
and new possibilities. Try the
CRUISE/KIDMAN "FAR & AWAY".
It captures the adventuring spirit of
the early pioneers anxious to blaze
a trail to a new home. Let's you and
I find some new adventures!
FEB 9, 2021
INTIMATE DISCLOSURE #6
Now's the perfect moment to share my personal definition of LOVE.
I embraced this approach the first time D. shared it with me and I've not only lived
by it in every area of my life, it's what gets me out of bed in the morning, into
bed with you sweeties and, without it, no amount of money could convince me to
do what I do when I've got more than enough money.
"The greatest gift or kindness you can give another is giving them someone to love."
He believed (or rather learned from an amazing, bizarre life and from whom he
accepted as God guiding him in the deepest core of his soul) that being loved
teaches little or nothing...it was when we have someone to love, we could
learn to diminish ourselves to serve another and, in that serving, we are
continually compelled to be and become the best -- most impressive -- version
of ourselves. Loving another calls us to deny everything ugly in ourselves and
strive for everything the one we love needs...wants...deserves.
In the end, LOVE is a metamorphosis of our ugly duckling into a beautiful Swan.
From a cocoon to a glorious butterfly! When I'm with you...this is my goal --
be the tenderness you're not getting, the lust you're not finding,
the sincerity others you love don't return, the delight, laughter and
affinity most search for all their lives and rarely if ever find. For an hour...
I fall in love with you. And I love it! I get more from it than you do likely...
because I have to shed my SELF, learn, grow, challenge myself..transform!
I am a better ME when you leave. Love is giving and sacrifice. The end.
Post-modern rationalism begat our
intellectualism and suddenly IQ be-
came a standard measure of one's
superiority in society's pecking
order. Girls love smart men! But most
smart men are vain and condescen-
ding, and most brainless men are
vain about their bodies, shallow &
often without much soul or moral
compass. Smart men find little
thrill in blowing bubbles, dancing
like an Egyptian, or just good 'ol
goofing off. Brainless men can't
get beyond their muscles or
monster-truck rallies. I dropped out
of pre-med, my average scrabble
is twice most people's best game.
But I'm a silly-billy being willy-
nilly with her giggles and wiggles
and I love to roll down hills, spin
until I fall down, and who doesn't
like a round of Rock Em-Sock Em
Robots? GET SMART is a precious
TV show and the HATHAWAY flick
is always fun to watch. God, it's
so fun turning off the brain and
relishing idiocy! But of course we
have to mention the movie I've
watched some 200+ times --
REAL GENIUS. Hilarious, stupid
and smart simultaneously!
At the risk of being pedestrian
FERRIS BUELLER reminds us all
learning rocks but GET OUT
and learn from DOING!
FEB 8, 2021
Science has not yet assessed the
actual intelligence of what we call
intuition which may border on
ESP or something spooky. Some
people have it and don't need
a higher IQ -- they've got some-
thing more valuable and some-
times more reliable. But on the
serious side of learning, most
people stop progressing in
their curiosity. I'm still learning
AMESLAN and deciphering my
RUBICS CUBE (dodging cheats)
and travel has always been an
enormous source of gathering
new knowledge: more than this
it alters the windows and doors
of the mind...so that other things
that have nothing to do with
travel or even data, become
easier to learn. PYGMALION may
MIKE TYSON them all but try
EDUCATING RITA (a vague
homage). GOOD WILL HUNTING
is always a solid; and, for comedy
the ORIGINAL "Nutty Professor"
has the genius and the suave
ladykiller. Laugh while you learn!
Even sex has its own tuition.
FEB 8, 2021
WHAT?! RABBIT, WORK, LUCKY....FUN!
FEB 7, 2021
Sunday mornings are always fun
for me because I do observe the
'SABBATH' which is common to
80% of religious people worldwide.
So SCHOOLHOUSE ROCK and
FAMILY AFFAIR are on my list.
In the spirit of that check out
LUCKY NUMBER SLEVIN.
Two great LOVE STORIES!
Time to do some painting
which is a joy and a comfort
and not at all "WORK"!
INTIMATE DISCLOSURE #5
I haven't yet really even grazed the surface of music (and music videos) that are sacred
to me. So, for those of you who keep asking, only to frequently have the inquiry
dodged...here ya go. PHANTOM OF THE PARADISE may be schlock and camp
(or even worse not camp...EGAD!) but D. turned me on to the freaky B-Movie
and the FABULOUS music wirtten by PAUL WILLIAMS and I'm still cranking it loud
and loving every delicious note/lyric. "THE HELL OF IT" below in the HELL post
is one of those songs. As music videos go, it's hard to beat DARLING PRETTY by
MARK KNOPFLER...I've spent my entire adult life pursuing the inner beauty and
character that warranted the woman in this video being ME. I have no idea if I
have succeeded, or ever will, but this video is more sacred to me than I can express.
"IT'S RAINING AGAIN" by Supertramp is next on that list...both are tear-rendering
salutes to some of the best LOVE STORIES you can find. But for individual songs
(not including D.'s music and the music I've helped produce and sing on myself)
nothing brings me to broken, sobbing heart-welling gratitude for LOVE itself than
Brandi Carlisle's "I BELONG TO YOU". I feel pity for those who've never felt so
insanely in love with another that they cannot breathe without them.
This song is quite literally the anthem of my entire world with the man I was
so LUCKY to know, learn from...share air with. That was very very...sacred info!
Now you know what's with all the UMBRELLA pics of me!
If BRAINSTORM is too retro for ya
try MICHAEL. It's not a great love
story but it may also be very apropos
for us all right now
There's not a single movie that takes
place in HEAVEN though many claim
to. That leaves me with one of my
favs -- BRAINSTORM! Though the
glimpse into heaven is brief, there's
no beating CHRISTOPHER WALKEN
and NATALIE WOOD! Brazil has
some jawdropping sites once out
of the major cities and since we
all can't travel anytime soon, we
can try to carve out a little piece of
our own local heaven by doing
what we can with what we have.
I've got something that gushes...
You have something that
FEB 7, 2021
It's difficult to determine which is the
more fascinating LOVE STORY --
Tom Cruise rescuing the fair maiden...
or The Devil who denies her release.
Either way, Mia plays the second of
decent roles before vanishing forever.
This Fairy-Tale is fraught with religious
overtones and implications. It's Sun-
day and, as most know, I have on my
"FUCKET LIST" at least one sexual
tryst with a Priest. The nun experi-
ence is now posted on my VIP (with
her permission and a little editing).
FEB 7, 2021
"It's been 20 months since I last saw Amy at the
airport where she made me regret not booking more
time because it zipped by so fast and she was not only
that 'Amyazing' everyone refers to her as, but also
incredibly charming, smart, funny and has great taste
in all things before her time. So this morning I arrived
at her oasis for the first time and I cleverly booked 3 hrs
so that, in addition to the ideal TLC, we watched
"BLONDIE PLAYS CUPID" from 1940 in the spirit of all
things loveydovey and Valentine. She showed me
her Baseball/ hockey cards and, in her very ladylike way,
giggled her way through a game or two which I did
during recess at age 8-10, but somehow lost the knack.
She clobbered me! Can't wait to do it again"
What's Saturday morning without my
cartoons?! It's a long-standing tra-
dition of mine, because I missed the
whole 70s/80s FAD that died out
before I could join the party! But
since it's apropos, among the
legendary LOVES there can be no
argument that TOM & JERRY,
BORIS & NATASHA, YOGI &
BOOBOO, SCOOBY & SHAGGY
WILE E. COYOTE & Road Runner,
SPIKE & Kitty, BUGS & ELMER
are notable mentions. But it
doesn't stop at the cartoons!
How about TOUCAN SAM &
his Loopies, Sonny & his Cocoa
Puffs, Tricks & his Trix etc...
I mean THAT was LOVE!
With all this in mind, can you guess
which timeless LOVE is number one?
SANTA MONICA PIER, 2015
It's not difficult when you are in fun
and glamorous places to feel like
Barbie! I love watching the old
commercials and, of course, the
cartoons trying to get a sense of
how AMUSEMENT PARK every-
thing seemed to those born in
such a sweet time compared to
the 90s/2000s/2010s etc.
I feel cheated! Those of you who
FEB 6, 2021
Retro TV and movies are filled
with dashing men dressed to kill,
swooning women who dressed
and behaved like BARBIE...
Both men and women still had
etiquette, courtesy and savoir-
faire! TV and MOVIES have
become pretty crass, loud,
abrasive, abusive, insulting
and just plain...ugly in so many
ways! Reality TV didn't help!
But Legendary Loves like LUCY
and Desi, Oliver & Lisa, J & J
Hart etc. I admit that FRED F.
and The Kramdens may be the
unwitting forefathers of our fallen
charms but there's no mistaking
much of this era was lost to our
discredit as a society that's more
vulgar, crude, let-it-all-hang-out.
The Feminine Mystique has
vanished, the debonaire man
has sadly been bludgeoned to
death by Feminism. I'd love to find
a hold-out guy who's fine with a gal
who doesn't splay herself, loves
THE 3 STOOGES and knows how to
play 70s-style sports-trading-card
games. There's too many Timeless
Loves to mention so here's my #1
choice! Make me swoooon!
FEB 6, 2021
INTIMATE DISCLOSURE #4
I’ve shared this before but it’s timely now, what with the two BEAR posts of Thursday.
There’s a larger design than breaching the bunny metaphor it’s seeming to offend.
When my dearly-departed was a teenager he dated a girl with whom he developed
a ‘schtik’ of sorts. She admired his superior brain and he was drawn to her small stature and
cuteness and, being a big YOGI BEAR fan, she’d call him YOGI and he’d call her BOOBOO.
When people inquired they’d explain and people were enchanted. He spread this to DETROIT
where relatives lived and with whom he often stayed for months at a time (because of his
horrifying home/family circumstance). It caught on, first there and eventually elsewhere,
especially among the blacks he spent much of his social time with. They started referring to
their GFs as their 'boo boo’. True story...I was married to the man that started that
40 years ago! I was proud to be BOOBOO to his (much, much much} smarter-than-the-average bear.
I was also given the name ROO so that I was ROO to his KANGA and that eventually
evolved into ROUX which is a cajun term/food and JOHNNY DEPP’s character in CHOCOLAT.
All my friends have called me ROUX for many years. FYI (for those who aren’t aware) almost
every ASIAN culture has both an English name and a name from their ethnic language.
Amy is my given English name but if I’d been born in INDIA (and certainly when I visited there)
I had an INDIAN name...I bet you’re dying to know what it is!