THE ROSE

If it interests you...here you can observe the compass by which I navigate my life -- my philosophies and belief systems upon which I mostly live. I've traveled a great deal and met a vast array of people and changed my ideas very radically many times about many things, so my brain is not hardwired to one strict concept of anything. I've been turned 180 degrees more than once on serious matters; and I hope that, as I age, I continue to embrace wisdom and anything that might change my mind on any particular matter, rather than simply fossilize myself merely because it was my earliest exposure to something. 
It's not meant to be a narcissistic diatribe, just a simple means for those who may want to know me a bit more intimately to do so.

SEX

Tersely-put, SEX is the universal panacea


Emotions, relationships, stress, physical illness, the soul --

there's almost nothing it can't fix if you get the right amount,

the right kind, and the right frequency.

If everyone on the planet had some sort of gratifying, quality

sex at least twice a day there'd literally be no enmity between any

two people at all let alone nations; there would be no war, no divorce,

no jealousy, no mischief, no discord. The only thing wrong with the

world right now is that almost NO ONE is getting even close

to the right sex, the right amount of sex and the right frequency of sex.

I could (and might eventually) go into this in detail but

-- for the moment -- it's enough to say that I consider sex to be

the fibrous matter that ties and preserves the

very fabric of existence itself. 
I consider myself something of a physician, or at least an instrument

of the best kind of medicine -- a panacea that we all desperately

need in order to even think straight every day let alone be

expected to function well. The challenge is not getting or having sex,

it's finding out what makes your own personal machine work optimally.

Who are you? What's in your head and heart and soul?

What is it you need that's special to you?

What is it you want that's unique and will make all the cogs

and sprockets start spinning together in harmony and ease?

What will make you sleep and dream like a baby?

How often do you need it?

Once you discover these answers,

life is likely to be wonderful and the journey to their

discovery is, by itself, an adventure!
 

I do not subscribe to the concept of hedonism but there's

something to it that's not far from ideal. You should be much happier!

It's tragic that so many have become resigned that whatever

unhappiness and unfulfilment is in their lives, it is their fate

and beyond changing. NONSENSE! No one deserves to be

miserable, aching, frustrated, bitter, lonely or just plain sexually-fluxed.

Whomever and whatever the obstacles standing between you

and your own personal contentment are

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO TOLERATE THAT SHIT! 
It is too easy to become increasingly-surrounded by those who take

and give nothing in return, to become responsible to supplying

others with the things they need and want while they merely

accept your sacrifice without recognizing their

responsibilities to you in return.
As a people, as a cosmos, we must have symbiosis.
There has to be equal give-and-take.
You have a right to take and to have.
And at the top of the list of things we all need and have a right to take

and have is SEX AND INTIMACY...

tenderness and yes raw, animal gratification.
There has been far too much emphasis the last 50 years on becoming

'civilized', 'politically-correct' and bleeding-heart 'sensitive'.
The way we're going as a species...

reminds me of the fall of the Roman Empire.
If an alien-race invaded, we'd fold like a cheap suit.
We're becoming weak and overly-fragile.
We're losing our DIE-HARD character.
Sex is a great example of how that's been decaying.
Sex should be a refuge and a sword.
Sex should be John Wick on a rampage! 
Sex should be mankind seizing back its heroic and valiant

soul from oblivion.
If those around you who should be protecting you and riding

shotgun with you are not...

you have every right to it anyhow.

IFUSEEKAMY